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Dear FOB Diary....."My Boyfriend Doesn't Care" I Need Advice

Dear FOB Diary,

I don't want to bore you with my story but I need advice.
I met my boyfriend last year when I volunteered in a program which was meant for youths.

As a master degree holder then, I wasn't a speaker at the function, so I decided to serve as an usher. When the event started I noticed him, when he stood up to give his speech cus he was a speaker at the event and I said wow. I crushed on him immediately, I wanted him for myself.

When he was about leaving after the whole show I walked toward the aisle to where he was standing cus he was discussing with the organiser who happened to be my friend. I signaled my friend that I was leaving cus I had a meeting with my client later in the evening.

When I passed Bobo no gree look, so I left. I got home freshened up and forgot about the dude cus my ego was already out, after my attempt.

Few days later my friend told me someone wants my number, described him and in my mind I was like heeeeeeey. We connected after a week, when he finally called we talked. Met a few times, became friends and finally he asked me out and I said yes. We started dating. It was blissful at first, I noticed he was nonchalant about emotional stuffs but I overlooked it. 8months into our relationship, I can't bear it again. He make sure I am OK financially. I have never had a man that supports me financially like he does, even though i earn a fat salary.

But that's not all I want. He doesn't have time to hear me out, rarely calls, have lots of female friends but I can't say he is cheating, I need his care, time and attention. I miss certain things I need not money. Sometimes I feel shy telling people I'm in a relationship. I don't know what to do.
I feel I should walk away?

I need  your advice.

My advice is very simple
I can't tell you categorically what to do cus I'm not you, I can't compare my shoes to yours.

I will advice you make out time, sit down and talk to him in the most mildest way. Remember communication is one of the vital tools needed in a relationship. Open up on how you feel, watch his reactions and make your decisions from the way he reacts, remember to be mild, don't run your mouth.

Thanks for sharing, wish you the best with it.

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2 comments

  1. Thanks Faith. I tried what you said and I left feed back for you in a mail. Pls check and reply me

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    1. Hello anon. Thanks for sending your comment. I just replied your mail.

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